Wow! I can't believe it has already been two months since my tubal ligation reversal! Backache, headaches, hot flashes at night, rapid heart beat, nightmares, ovulation pains were some of my major symptoms before my reversal surgery. I was not informed about any side effects, studies reveal up to 50% of woman after getting a tubal ligation have these exact problems. I can confidently say all of these awful symptoms are GONE! I have tracked my ovulation twice and get nervous each time it comes up positive just waiting to bend over in pain, but alas nothing! Not even the small cramps that I used to feel before getting the tubal ligation done. The only difference after surgery has been PMS. I never had it before and I seem to have a few of those symptoms a few days before my period now. PMS seems to be pretty common, so I am not worried. It took a full three weeks until I felt totally like myself again, but I noticed right away a lot of my Post Tubal Ligation Syndrome issues disappeared.
All I can do now is spread my story to other mothers thinking of doing a tubal ligation. There are so many other forms of birth control out there that you can stop doing at anytime if you are having a bad reaction, a tubal ligation is NOT one of them. I feel so blessed everyday to have been able to reverse this nightmare. I think of all the woman often that are suffering the way I was and don't have the funds to get the surgery. Right now I am focusing on my kids. Summer break is around the corner and I can't wait to spend my days enjoying the sun with all my babies. I plan to go back to Pure Barre 3 days a week next month. Since you use your abdomen for a majority of the workouts I want to be extra careful getting back into it.
I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend!
Saturday, May 27, 2017
Friday, March 31, 2017
Tubal Ligation Reversal Surgery Update
On Monday, March 27th at 8 am I had my tubal reversal. I was terrified, but all went well and I was in great hands! The surgery was 3 hours long, which my surgeon had told me it would be at my consultation in late February. I just didn't think it would actually take that long! After the surgery I was very groggy, but soon after I was able to get up and change with Matt's help. The surgeon came in and told us that everything went well! The right side was very easy to reconnect, but he had a lot of trouble with the left. My surgeon mentioned that one opening was bigger than the other opening so it was difficult to reconnect, but he was finally able to! As for scar tissue from having 4 c-sections, he said that there was zero! I was shocked and so was he, but it made me very happy to hear! We left very soon after recovery and it was a 45 minute drive home which seemed like 10 minutes because I was so out of it! Once I got home, I went right to bed and I slept for a little while. Then, two at a time, Matt brought the kids up after my parents visited with me. I felt so nauseous after seeing everyone. I tried so hard not to throw up, but I did and it was the most painful thing I have ever gone through! If you've had a c-section and sneezed soon after surgery, it feels like that times 10! I assume I felt so sick from the anesthesia, but it could have also been the Percocet. I continued to rest and tried to eat some soup and drink some water. It seemed to help at first, but then I threw up a second time and it was just as painful as the first! I finally fell back asleep and the next day I felt much better, but still was in a lot of pain. Each day I have been feeling a little more like myself and am able to move around and help more. As for PTLS, my headaches are gone, my lower back pain is gone and I feel great overall, especially 3 days post major surgery!! I want to thank everyone that has reached out to check on me! I really appreciate all the kind messages.
Monday, March 20, 2017
My Post Tubal Ligation Syndrome Story
I have been going back and forth for about a month now deciding if I should share my experience of getting my tubal ligation done. It isn't easy to share such personal information, but I feel like I need to inform all mothers who are considering tubal ligation.
After giving birth to Rose at 24 years old via c-section (my fourth) I had asked my doctor to tie my tubes. They never said for medical reasons they suggest it or anything like that. Matt and I just feel so blessed to have four healthy babies and were nervous to get pregnant for a fifth time and risk another high risk pregnancy and c-section. This form of birth control made the most sense and seemed like the easiest and safest. After the surgery I felt great, since it was my fourth I knew what to expect. I actually asked to leave the day after my surgery because I missed my boys. Fast forward 16 months to when I started the processes of weaning Rose from breastfeeding and my cycle returned--I felt terrible. I knew my first period would stink, but it was HORRIBLE! As the month continued, I was having more and more awful symptoms-- the biggest ones being headaches, lower back pain, dizziness, mood swings. One night after putting the kids to sleep (Matt was working late) I was folding the laundry when I felt the sharpest, cramping, intense pain around my left ovary. I was bent over in pain which continued like this for hours. I took Tylenol to try to fall asleep, but still woke up a bunch of times. After researching and talking to my doctor about my symptoms we thought it may have been an ovarian cyst that burst during ovulation. I thought this was weird because I have never had a history of cysts (later I found out cysts are another symptom caused by the TL.) The symptoms kept coming as the month continued-- vivid dreams, night sweats, fatigue etc. I actually started thinking something was seriously wrong with me. I had to take a break from Pure Barre, which if you know me, is a big part of my life.
I did some more research and found I have identical symptoms as many other woman who have had their tubes tied. As many as 50% of woman who have had this surgery experience these symptoms and guess what the only way to feel relief is? Getting another surgery to get it reversed! Why do so many woman have these symptoms from a surgery that is supposed to have little to no risks? The biggest risk being ectopic pregnancy, but with a success rate of 99.99% you don't need to worry about that really according to doctors. When you get your tubes tied you are cutting off the normal blood flow to your ovaries which causes a hormonal imbalance and is the reason many woman have these symptoms. What I don't understand is why this form of birth control is still happening. I regret not doing any research before getting them tied. I have read so many horror stories of mothers resulting in them going on birth control to stop ovulation to help mask some of their symptoms. I just can't imagine after doing something so drastic to myself to ensure no more babies to then have to get on birth control and for how long? Until menopause in 25+ years?
Some woman have been lucky enough to find a surgeon to do a reversal. It is a very high risk procedure that is about three hours long and takes about two weeks to recover from. Also, comes at a price of around $7,000 just for the surgery, that's not including the anesthesia or the appointments and tests leading up to the surgery. Not only are you putting yourself at risk getting the reversal that has only a 60%-80% success rate it is NOT covered by insurance. Tubal ligation is covered because it means no more babies that the insurance company will have to pay for. Makes sense that they don't want to cover it, but when you are having these symptoms every single day from a surgery that is supposed to have little to no risks that they did cover it's hard not to be upset. The last option is a hysterectomy and at 26 years old, I just feel I can not do this. My body has been through so much I am not ready to put it into early menopause like that. Though many woman who can't afford the tubal reversal have no other choice to relieve themselves of the pain their tubal ligation has brought them because a hysterectomy is covered by insurance since once again, it means no more babies. The medical industry makes money off of woman who get tubal ligations and then they get even MORE money when they end up needing to get a hysterectomy because of the pain their tubal ligations give them! It is SO disturbing!
I am writing this post to warn mothers of the risks of getting your tubes tied. There ARE risks! Do not let what has happened to me, happen to you. I am so blessed to have a supportive husband and parents who are helping Matt and I afford the surgery so I can have my life back and be here for my children. I will be getting my tubal reversal next week. I am so nervous and wish more than anything I didn't have to, but I am not myself and I just wish I didn't do it to begin with. I was lucky to be able to get pregnant and carry healthy babies and not all woman can say that. I can't help but feel like this is what I deserve for doing this, for messing with my body and the way it is supposed to work. As I am sure many of you are wondering if we will be having more children in the future since I am getting the reversal. Right now we are just focused on my health-- if we are to have another baby we will feel blessed and welcome them with open arms, but it is not something we are planning at the moment. Also, I have met a lot of sweet mothers while doing my research. There are actually over 3,000 mothers in a Post Tubal Ligation Syndrome Facebook group. I came across Rebekah's Tubal Ligation story on her blog and it really stood out to me please feel free to read it here.
If you have any questions or would like to tell me your story feel free to email me, comment below or message me on Instagram- @melissaaworthington
Full list of Post Tubal Ligation Syndrome here
After giving birth to Rose at 24 years old via c-section (my fourth) I had asked my doctor to tie my tubes. They never said for medical reasons they suggest it or anything like that. Matt and I just feel so blessed to have four healthy babies and were nervous to get pregnant for a fifth time and risk another high risk pregnancy and c-section. This form of birth control made the most sense and seemed like the easiest and safest. After the surgery I felt great, since it was my fourth I knew what to expect. I actually asked to leave the day after my surgery because I missed my boys. Fast forward 16 months to when I started the processes of weaning Rose from breastfeeding and my cycle returned--I felt terrible. I knew my first period would stink, but it was HORRIBLE! As the month continued, I was having more and more awful symptoms-- the biggest ones being headaches, lower back pain, dizziness, mood swings. One night after putting the kids to sleep (Matt was working late) I was folding the laundry when I felt the sharpest, cramping, intense pain around my left ovary. I was bent over in pain which continued like this for hours. I took Tylenol to try to fall asleep, but still woke up a bunch of times. After researching and talking to my doctor about my symptoms we thought it may have been an ovarian cyst that burst during ovulation. I thought this was weird because I have never had a history of cysts (later I found out cysts are another symptom caused by the TL.) The symptoms kept coming as the month continued-- vivid dreams, night sweats, fatigue etc. I actually started thinking something was seriously wrong with me. I had to take a break from Pure Barre, which if you know me, is a big part of my life.
I did some more research and found I have identical symptoms as many other woman who have had their tubes tied. As many as 50% of woman who have had this surgery experience these symptoms and guess what the only way to feel relief is? Getting another surgery to get it reversed! Why do so many woman have these symptoms from a surgery that is supposed to have little to no risks? The biggest risk being ectopic pregnancy, but with a success rate of 99.99% you don't need to worry about that really according to doctors. When you get your tubes tied you are cutting off the normal blood flow to your ovaries which causes a hormonal imbalance and is the reason many woman have these symptoms. What I don't understand is why this form of birth control is still happening. I regret not doing any research before getting them tied. I have read so many horror stories of mothers resulting in them going on birth control to stop ovulation to help mask some of their symptoms. I just can't imagine after doing something so drastic to myself to ensure no more babies to then have to get on birth control and for how long? Until menopause in 25+ years?
Some woman have been lucky enough to find a surgeon to do a reversal. It is a very high risk procedure that is about three hours long and takes about two weeks to recover from. Also, comes at a price of around $7,000 just for the surgery, that's not including the anesthesia or the appointments and tests leading up to the surgery. Not only are you putting yourself at risk getting the reversal that has only a 60%-80% success rate it is NOT covered by insurance. Tubal ligation is covered because it means no more babies that the insurance company will have to pay for. Makes sense that they don't want to cover it, but when you are having these symptoms every single day from a surgery that is supposed to have little to no risks that they did cover it's hard not to be upset. The last option is a hysterectomy and at 26 years old, I just feel I can not do this. My body has been through so much I am not ready to put it into early menopause like that. Though many woman who can't afford the tubal reversal have no other choice to relieve themselves of the pain their tubal ligation has brought them because a hysterectomy is covered by insurance since once again, it means no more babies. The medical industry makes money off of woman who get tubal ligations and then they get even MORE money when they end up needing to get a hysterectomy because of the pain their tubal ligations give them! It is SO disturbing!
I am writing this post to warn mothers of the risks of getting your tubes tied. There ARE risks! Do not let what has happened to me, happen to you. I am so blessed to have a supportive husband and parents who are helping Matt and I afford the surgery so I can have my life back and be here for my children. I will be getting my tubal reversal next week. I am so nervous and wish more than anything I didn't have to, but I am not myself and I just wish I didn't do it to begin with. I was lucky to be able to get pregnant and carry healthy babies and not all woman can say that. I can't help but feel like this is what I deserve for doing this, for messing with my body and the way it is supposed to work. As I am sure many of you are wondering if we will be having more children in the future since I am getting the reversal. Right now we are just focused on my health-- if we are to have another baby we will feel blessed and welcome them with open arms, but it is not something we are planning at the moment. Also, I have met a lot of sweet mothers while doing my research. There are actually over 3,000 mothers in a Post Tubal Ligation Syndrome Facebook group. I came across Rebekah's Tubal Ligation story on her blog and it really stood out to me please feel free to read it here.
If you have any questions or would like to tell me your story feel free to email me, comment below or message me on Instagram- @melissaaworthington
Full list of Post Tubal Ligation Syndrome here
Tuesday, January 31, 2017
Marriage
I have had many friends and followers ask me how Matt and I find time to ourselves and/or keep the spark alive in our marriage. I figured with Valentine's Day right around the corner this is the perfect time to write a post about it!
This past New Year's Eve my husband, Matt and I celebrated our five year wedding anniversary!
I have heard that "the first year is the hardest." I didn't find this to be true for us though. I was so excited to marry Matt and I remember the first few months after our wedding getting butterflies being able to say "my husband" as I tried to hold back smiling up to my ears. Over these past five years we have matured and grown. We were only 21 and 22 years old when we got married. A lot has happened since we said "I do." We have had THREE more kids, moved three times and even bought a puppy! Here is what we do to keep our marriage a strong one.
Compromise
No marriage is perfect! I am a firm believer in this. Every relationship has their ups and downs and people in relationships will argue at some point. You can't agree on everything, you are two different people. Matt and I like to compromise if he is set on his way about something and I feel totally different we put our marriage first and find a compromise. Marriage can be hard it takes work at times.
Where it all started
Two people need to share the responsibility for romance and love in the relationship. Marriage is not a one sided thing you BOTH have to put in the effort. Once you have kids it is even harder to remember life before them. I do my best to occasionally look back at old pictures and remember how my heart would race when Matt would just even look at me and my eyes would light up.
Appreciate each other
It feels good to be appreciated. It is as simple as that. Matt goes to work for our family. He sits in traffic and works all day. I know most people do this, but he does this for me, so I can be at home where I want to be taking care of our beautiful babies and so we have a warm home to sleep in and food to eat. I don't tell him enough how much I appreciate all he has done and continues to do for his family. Take the time to tell them how much you appreciate them!
Little things
This falls under appreciating each other I believe, but doing little things every day for each other makes a world of difference in a a relationship. For example, Matt will fill up my gas tank if he sees it is low or pick up the one grocery I forgot at the store or move the wash to the dryer. Every morning I make his coffeee and lunch and when we are watching a show I will sometimes scratch his back, because I want to make him know I am thinking about him, even if it is just a small thing like picking up his clothes if he forgot to throw them in the hamper. These little things don't go unnoticed.
Date night in or out
Whenever I feel like our kids schedules or just life in general is getting overwhelming and we aren't spending enough time together one of us usually suggests a date night. We put the kids to bed (early like usual) pick a show or a movie to watch, get some take out and just enjoy some time together in peace. Obviously, it is nice to go out too, but I prefer to save it for special occasions like birthdays or our anniversary.
Matt and me have never really had much time as just us. I got pregnant with Landon very soon after we started dating and since then our relationships main focus became our kids. Even with four kids we know our marriage comes first to the both of us. When our kids grow up (because sadly they all do) Matt and I will be just that, Matt and I. Lucky for us, we had our kids young so hopefully when our kids are older, we can take that time to travel and actually enjoy a vacation without having to worry about nap times.
Hope you found this post to be a helpful!
This past New Year's Eve my husband, Matt and I celebrated our five year wedding anniversary!
I have heard that "the first year is the hardest." I didn't find this to be true for us though. I was so excited to marry Matt and I remember the first few months after our wedding getting butterflies being able to say "my husband" as I tried to hold back smiling up to my ears. Over these past five years we have matured and grown. We were only 21 and 22 years old when we got married. A lot has happened since we said "I do." We have had THREE more kids, moved three times and even bought a puppy! Here is what we do to keep our marriage a strong one.
Compromise
No marriage is perfect! I am a firm believer in this. Every relationship has their ups and downs and people in relationships will argue at some point. You can't agree on everything, you are two different people. Matt and I like to compromise if he is set on his way about something and I feel totally different we put our marriage first and find a compromise. Marriage can be hard it takes work at times.
Where it all started
Two people need to share the responsibility for romance and love in the relationship. Marriage is not a one sided thing you BOTH have to put in the effort. Once you have kids it is even harder to remember life before them. I do my best to occasionally look back at old pictures and remember how my heart would race when Matt would just even look at me and my eyes would light up.
Appreciate each other
It feels good to be appreciated. It is as simple as that. Matt goes to work for our family. He sits in traffic and works all day. I know most people do this, but he does this for me, so I can be at home where I want to be taking care of our beautiful babies and so we have a warm home to sleep in and food to eat. I don't tell him enough how much I appreciate all he has done and continues to do for his family. Take the time to tell them how much you appreciate them!
Little things
This falls under appreciating each other I believe, but doing little things every day for each other makes a world of difference in a a relationship. For example, Matt will fill up my gas tank if he sees it is low or pick up the one grocery I forgot at the store or move the wash to the dryer. Every morning I make his coffeee and lunch and when we are watching a show I will sometimes scratch his back, because I want to make him know I am thinking about him, even if it is just a small thing like picking up his clothes if he forgot to throw them in the hamper. These little things don't go unnoticed.
Date night in or out
Whenever I feel like our kids schedules or just life in general is getting overwhelming and we aren't spending enough time together one of us usually suggests a date night. We put the kids to bed (early like usual) pick a show or a movie to watch, get some take out and just enjoy some time together in peace. Obviously, it is nice to go out too, but I prefer to save it for special occasions like birthdays or our anniversary.
Matt and me have never really had much time as just us. I got pregnant with Landon very soon after we started dating and since then our relationships main focus became our kids. Even with four kids we know our marriage comes first to the both of us. When our kids grow up (because sadly they all do) Matt and I will be just that, Matt and I. Lucky for us, we had our kids young so hopefully when our kids are older, we can take that time to travel and actually enjoy a vacation without having to worry about nap times.
I want our children to grow up with a strong example of a happy marriage.
Sunday, January 22, 2017
Trent is THREE
I don't think I have written an update on Trent since he turned one!
There is so much to say about our youngest son, so I am going to jump right in! Ever since Trent was born, he has been a mama's boy. I nursed him the longest besides Rose and I have always felt such a special, yet different bond to him compared to our other boys. I am not sure how many of you know this, but Matt and I picked the name Trent because it is my maiden name. When I found out we were having our THIRD boy, I was shocked to say the least. I was 110% sure Trent was a girl, so much so that I had bought some bows already. We went in for our NT Scan at 13 weeks and the ultrasound tech said she was sure it was a boy. I didn't believe her and I thought she was wrong and I was in denial for weeks! We went to two or three gender scans outside my OB practice and they all said the same thing. It wasn't until our 20 week gender scan, where they confirmed yet again, we were indeed having our third boy that I started to warm up to the idea! The thought of Landon and Oliver having a little brother to follow them around and be the three little amigos made my heart melt! I reminded myself how badly I wanted a third child--boy or girl. Matt and I wanted another baby it didn't matter the sex all that mattered was that they were healthy and he was.
As for personality, I mentioned before, he is a true mama's boy. Trent wants to be with me all the time which has obviously brought up major challenges because Rose is always very clingy and wants to be held by me all the time, so they both cry at my feet wanting to be picked up which is so hard. Trent loves Rose, but he needs to feel comforted and loved by me or he has a meltdown. The older they get the easier it is getting though! Trent has really bonded with Matt over Hot Wheels recently and it is so nice to see them playing together for hours on the floor. I know most two and three year olds are picky eaters, but there is no way they are more picky than our T man. Luckily, Matt can get him to eat, but it is a struggle. I am not even talking about fruit and vegetables, just any food! It is something I can't wait to bring up at his check up next week. Its strange because he doesn't look skinny Trent has always been a different build than his brothers more muscular, but I assure you he hardly eats!
Literally, the day Trent turned two, he didn't like choo choo trains anymore which was rough, because his theme was Thomas the Train and he became OBSESSED with Lightning McQueen (the theme for his third birthday this year!) We have to listen to the Cars intro song by Sheryl Crow on repeat in the car, the second he wakes up he grabs a little Lightning McQueen car to hold and play with the entire day-- kind of like a security blanket. Out of all four kids, Trent is by far the most shy. If a stranger is to even look at him, he hides behind me and won't make eye contact the entire time
We all adore Trent in this house he will always be the baby boy. Landon and Oliver enjoy looking after him and guiding him when he needs help. Trent, I can't imagine my life without you. I couldn't be more proud of the kind boy you are growing up to be. I'll love you forever my sweet boy.
There is so much to say about our youngest son, so I am going to jump right in! Ever since Trent was born, he has been a mama's boy. I nursed him the longest besides Rose and I have always felt such a special, yet different bond to him compared to our other boys. I am not sure how many of you know this, but Matt and I picked the name Trent because it is my maiden name. When I found out we were having our THIRD boy, I was shocked to say the least. I was 110% sure Trent was a girl, so much so that I had bought some bows already. We went in for our NT Scan at 13 weeks and the ultrasound tech said she was sure it was a boy. I didn't believe her and I thought she was wrong and I was in denial for weeks! We went to two or three gender scans outside my OB practice and they all said the same thing. It wasn't until our 20 week gender scan, where they confirmed yet again, we were indeed having our third boy that I started to warm up to the idea! The thought of Landon and Oliver having a little brother to follow them around and be the three little amigos made my heart melt! I reminded myself how badly I wanted a third child--boy or girl. Matt and I wanted another baby it didn't matter the sex all that mattered was that they were healthy and he was.
Trent was our only child to not need any NICU time after birth. You may not think that is a very big deal, but trust me as a mother who has experienced both having your brand new baby taken from you for days, weeks or even months after birth or getting to cuddle, nurse and bond with your baby right from the womb and take them home with you-- it is a WORLD of difference. I am not saying I don't have a strong bond with the rest of my children, but my bond with Trent is different. Trent has always been unique, I mean just look at him! He has a fair skin tone, blue/green eyes and is BLONDE! I never in a million years thought I would have blonde baby! Since his skin is so fair and dry he has AWFUL eczema. Matt and I have to literally put vaseline all over his body after showers or his skin cracks.
Literally, the day Trent turned two, he didn't like choo choo trains anymore which was rough, because his theme was Thomas the Train and he became OBSESSED with Lightning McQueen (the theme for his third birthday this year!) We have to listen to the Cars intro song by Sheryl Crow on repeat in the car, the second he wakes up he grabs a little Lightning McQueen car to hold and play with the entire day-- kind of like a security blanket. Out of all four kids, Trent is by far the most shy. If a stranger is to even look at him, he hides behind me and won't make eye contact the entire time
This past September, Matt and I signed Trent up for preschool twice a week for three hours. The first few weeks were hard he cried some when we left, but he has really adjusted and loves his teacher so much. We potty trained Trent in July this past summer when he was 2 and a half years old and it took him maybe 2 days to get the hang of it and we haven't looked back since! Another big change for Trent over this past summer was we moved him out of his crib and into a toddler bed in his bothers room so all three boys are now sleeping in one room and Princess Rose has her own room-- haha! Trent LOVES being treated like such a big boy so much so he decided this past month he no longer needs a nap and trust me when I say this he does, he really, really does.
We all adore Trent in this house he will always be the baby boy. Landon and Oliver enjoy looking after him and guiding him when he needs help. Trent, I can't imagine my life without you. I couldn't be more proud of the kind boy you are growing up to be. I'll love you forever my sweet boy.
Sunday, December 18, 2016
Hair Tutorial
I have been requested by a few followers to explain my hair routine and I am very flattered! Thank you!
As a mom of 4 kids 5 and under, I don't have much time for a long beauty routine. I am sure most of you can relate! I do my best to shower daily, but only wash my hair 2 or 3 times a week depending on time, weather and events etc. Since I am still breastfeeding, I try to drink as much water as I can which sadly isn't as much as I probably should. I also still take my prenatal vitamin which is recommend for all woman in their childbearing years. These two things have helped my hair stay pretty healthy, despite loosing some after each of my pregnancies. I know it might be hard to believe, but my hair used to be a lot thicker which is why I prefer it curled. It helps make it have more volume and appear to be thicker.
These are the products I use:
Shampoo and conditoner
Finishing oil
Brush
Hairspray
Step One: Wash!
I wash and shampoo my hair. I shampoo my scalp mostly and not my ends and I only put conditioner on my ends. In the past, shampooing my ends has made them drier and break more easily so I try to avoid it.
Step Two: Detangle!
Some women like to do this step after applying their conditioner in the shower while there hair is still wet. I do sometimes, but today I didn't.
Step Three: Dry!
I prefer to air dry my hair after I towel dry it. I usually wash my hair at night right after putting the kids to sleep or right after Matt gets home depending on the day. My hair usually dries within two hours. If I am in a hurry, I will blow dry it quickly.
Step Four: Curl!
This is the curling iron I use. I brush and then curl ~4 inch wide sections of my hair. Switching each time the way I roll the iron up.
Step Five: Finishing touch!
You only need about a dime size amount of the oil and ONLY put it on your ends or your hair will look greasy. I flip my head down and up a few times and shake it to loosen the curls and then I spray the hair spray all around once. I am not a huge hairspray person, I really don't love the feel of it and my hair gets knots the next day if I use too much.
Done!
From start to finish (on dry hair) I would say this takes me about 15 minutes and lasts 3ish days. I hope this tutorial helps! If you have any questions feel free to leave a comment below or message me on instagram (melissaaworthington)
Have a great week!
As a mom of 4 kids 5 and under, I don't have much time for a long beauty routine. I am sure most of you can relate! I do my best to shower daily, but only wash my hair 2 or 3 times a week depending on time, weather and events etc. Since I am still breastfeeding, I try to drink as much water as I can which sadly isn't as much as I probably should. I also still take my prenatal vitamin which is recommend for all woman in their childbearing years. These two things have helped my hair stay pretty healthy, despite loosing some after each of my pregnancies. I know it might be hard to believe, but my hair used to be a lot thicker which is why I prefer it curled. It helps make it have more volume and appear to be thicker.
These are the products I use:
Shampoo and conditoner
Finishing oil
Brush
Hairspray
Step One: Wash!
I wash and shampoo my hair. I shampoo my scalp mostly and not my ends and I only put conditioner on my ends. In the past, shampooing my ends has made them drier and break more easily so I try to avoid it.
Step Two: Detangle!
Some women like to do this step after applying their conditioner in the shower while there hair is still wet. I do sometimes, but today I didn't.
Step Three: Dry!
I prefer to air dry my hair after I towel dry it. I usually wash my hair at night right after putting the kids to sleep or right after Matt gets home depending on the day. My hair usually dries within two hours. If I am in a hurry, I will blow dry it quickly.
Step Four: Curl!
This is the curling iron I use. I brush and then curl ~4 inch wide sections of my hair. Switching each time the way I roll the iron up.
Step Five: Finishing touch!
You only need about a dime size amount of the oil and ONLY put it on your ends or your hair will look greasy. I flip my head down and up a few times and shake it to loosen the curls and then I spray the hair spray all around once. I am not a huge hairspray person, I really don't love the feel of it and my hair gets knots the next day if I use too much.
Done!
Have a great week!
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